Gosh damn it. Why does the subject of faking it come up the second I go on hiatus? Now, I must break from my all consuming job and respond... Sigh...
The question is "have you ever faked it"? BEWARE: ASK A TMI QUESTION, GET A TMI ANSWER!!!
I'm seeing alot of "no, not me's". Statistically, that is NOT TRUE. Most women have absolutely faked it. Alot of women don't orgasm 100% of the time they have sex with their partner. Or not with their partner (wink, wink). Orgasm is not just a god given right. Oh, wait... yes it is. But, it takes some work. I had to figure it out for myself. And then my husband had to figure ME out. I had to "kiss" alot of frogs to get to my "prince". In all honesty, he's the ONLY man I have EVER had make me orgasm. Help me orgasm? I take control of my own satisfaction some of the time and he doesn't seem to mind me using him as a means to an end. Other times, I just enjoy the ride. Anyway, this is MY FAVORITE SUBJECT. So, I had to respond. Girls, let's see some honesty with these answers! It's really a very important subject for women.
I agree 110%!!!! And yes, I have faked it. You bet I have. Because sometimes, it's just enough already! And some boys just can't get it through their stupid boy brains that just because I didn't have one doesn't mean it wasn't ok (although frankly, sometimes it wasn't). Anyhoo, those stupid boys are long gone.
ReplyDeletewant honesty check out my answers...lol....i am in total agreement :)
ReplyDeleteI faked it with my first husband for the first 9 years because I never really knew what it was like! Now I absolutely do not have to with my second husband!
ReplyDeleteI'm glad you found your prince.
ReplyDeleteRead my answer in my blog and I think I was about as upfront and honest as possible!! :)
ReplyDeleteI've got to say that I have never had an orgasm during sex. I think that it is due to unresolved issues with being sexually molested as a child.
ReplyDeleteBut I can orgasm by oral means or "outside" influences. I am embarrassed just to admit this! Luckily, I have a very understanding and loving husband. And yes, he wishes that I would allow him to help me more.
I have faked it, not because he isn't good but sometimes I just can't get there and since he waits for me first, I don't always want to drag it out. TMI I'm sure. But I just wanted to make the point that you don't always fake it because its bad. :P
ReplyDeleteI totally agree with you post...I admitted on my BYOC that I fake...and like Jenny...I do it because my husband will keep going and going and won't finish unless I make some noise...and yes! I'm a screamer :)
ReplyDeleteGreat answer and oh so true And get this my verification word is 'pullable'
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